Telling others

Health professionals like doctors, nurses and dentists cannot legally tell others that you are living with HIV.

Your doctor: It is important to tell your doctor you are taking HIV medicines because they could react with other medicines that you might need to take. If you are uncomfortable telling the doctors and nurses about your HIV, you can ask your HIV team at the hospital to talk to them.

Your dentist: You don’t have to, but it is a good idea to tell your dentist. If you have any problems with this contact your HIV team.

Other services: You don’t have to tell other services like universities, schools, sports clubs, hairdressers or beauticians. The choice is yours.

Your family and friends: There are no rules about who in your life you tell that you are living with HIV. You have no way of telling how people will react. Ask yourself the following questions:

·         Will the person support me?

·         Will the person tell others?

·         Will it help me if they know?

If you can’t answer YES to ALL of these questions, it is best not to tell that person and there is no law to stop them from discussing your HIV with others. Talk to a counsellor or your medical team to help you make the best decision.